This has become my single most emotional undertaking and largest project ever. I know personally what it means to have someone you love and cherish commit suicide. I only wish I had access to information from various sources to have the ability to prevent such an emotional event taking place.
I lacked information. I had access to church pastors, counsellors, psychiatrist, psychologists, family members and also friends who mean well. None of them contributed any information that could have saved my precious child from committing suicide. I cannot blame anyone as they themselves likely did not know what to do to prevent suicides.
The website www.besafe.my has been setup with the sole purpose of educating everyone on suicide, and how it might potentially be prevented. Can we prevent suicide? Yes, it’s possible. However, it takes a lot of effort and work. BeSAFE offers no guarantees that suicides can be stopped but offers solutions and measures that might help to potentially prevent the event.
I will collect information from all sources to present it here on the topic of preventing a suicide from happening. I will also work towards creating events and seminars on this subject matter. This will become my final act of love towards not only my son, but to everyone who seeks help to stop a suicide from taking place.
Please feel free to write to me at help@besafe.my.